Technology has changed, the way we approach women has changed as well, but the do’s and don’ts of the first date is pretty much the same as ever before.
Knowing right moves to make your date successful is very essential and it drastically affects your success rate with the women you are dating. The first date involves a lot of judging and knowing what to do and what not to do on a first date plays a vital role here are some of our expert tips to guide you through the process.
Things not to do on the first date
Don’t: Don’t get too excited: yes we understand that you are too excited about your date and you have already started thinking about a number of babies you want, but Stop! You are about to ruin your date. Too much excitement on your first date is lethal. Calm yourself down and stop acting like an immature kid.
Do’s: Plan a casual date: gone those days when the first date used to be extravagant, a simple coffee or lunch date is the best thing you can do to yourself. Planning anything big for the first date will make you more nervous but planning a casual coffee or brunch date will help you know each other better without any show-off.
Don’t: don’t dress fancy: I know that you want to look the best but you need to understand that being beautiful doesn’t depend on the clothes you wear, but it depends on the way you carry it. Wear an outfit that makes you feel comfortable. Ladies, stay away from high heels because you never know where your first date will lead you.
Do’s: smile: a smiling face is a beautiful face. Smile has a big psychological effect on brain and it makes you look more attractive.
Don’t: being Random: pre-planning is the best way to win any situation, being random can lead to awkward silence and uncomfortable situation. Try to stay strong with your homework, research few things about her and stay ready with conversation starters to keep the date effective.
Do: it’s okay to have one drink: if you are really anxious about your date then it’s no bad to have a drink before date, it will help you stay relaxed and save you from doing any blunder.
Do: research him on Facebook: if you are meeting a person for the first time then its good idea to do some basic research on Facebook or Instagram. This world is full of predators looking for their next target, and you need to stay cautious about that. It’s a ‘Red Flag’ if they have no presence on social media or if they have no conversation with friends.